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Not Every Disappointment Means “Avoidant”
If you are anxiously attached, it can be painfully easy to confuse disappointment with proof. This piece explores why uncertainty feels so threatening, why not every frustrating moment means your partner is avoidant, and how tolerating ambiguity can help you love with more clarity and less suffering.
Deborah Vail
Apr 46 min read


Bobbing and Weaving
"No-one can make you feel inferior without your consent." - Eleanor Roosevelt Current events of all kinds have, once again, caused...
Deborah Vail
Nov 1, 20234 min read


New Boundaries & Healing Group Starts September 22, 2023
Boundaries and Healing: Empowering Skills for Painful Relationships - this new group begins Friday, September 22, 2023 at noon. Group...
Deborah Vail
Apr 18, 20231 min read


New Mindfulness-Based Cognitive Therapy Group starts June 9th!
MBCT is proven effective in preventing relapses of depression, and in relieving the severity of symptoms in anxiety disorders....
Deborah Vail
Apr 17, 20231 min read
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